A psychic reading can provide insight into your past, future and present. If it’s been awhile since you had a reading done, here are some questions you should ask yourself before booking one. Read more at mensjournal.com.
Why do I want a psychic reading?
There are many reasons why someone may want a psychic reading. Some people have a natural curiosity about the world around them and wonder what lies beyond the surface. Others may be seeking guidance based on issues that they feel are important, such as financial planning, relationship advice or career goals. The answer to this question will help determine your session type and your expectations from the reading.
Your psychic has probably received training in tarot card readings, numerology, astrology, crystal ball gazing, palmistry, dream interpretation, etc. Some psychics specialize in these areas while others focus more on their own personal style of divination. Whatever your psychic’s background, she is able to offer insight into your current situation using her skillset.
Who will be performing my reading?
This depends on which type of psychic reading you choose. Many psychics use a medium, a helper spirit who communicates with you through automatic writing, channeling, telepathy, clairvoyance or clairsentience (a term used to describe being able to sense things like energy). Other psychics work alone without the aid of a medium. Your psychic may also have an assistant who acts as your “medium” during the reading.
Some psychics work exclusively with spirits, and other psychics work exclusively with humans. If you are interested in having a psychic communicate with ghosts or spirits, you may need to look elsewhere. However, if you are interested in working with mediums, there are plenty of options!
A good rule of thumb to keep in mind when choosing a psychic is to consider how much experience the person has. Most reputable psychics have at least 10 years of experience, but some individuals have over 50 years of experience and are considered experts in their field.
If you are unsure about your choice, ask the business owner or manager for references. Contact them directly and ask about their clients’ experiences. You may even want to schedule a phone consult to get a better idea of what you will receive from the reading before committing to a full-service session.
What happens during a psychic reading?
The process varies depending on the psychic you choose. For example, a clairvoyant may use clairaudience to hear messages from guides or angels, and a medium will use his or her ability to connect with the spirit world. All psychics are trained professionals who have honed their gift by studying, practicing and learning from their ancestors, so expect to learn something new.
In general, a psychic reading takes place in two ways. In a face-to-face session, the client sits across from the psychic while he or she performs the reading. This is the most common method and is ideal if you prefer a quiet environment.
An online psychic reading uses email or video chat software to connect you with your psychic. You can either watch the psychic perform the reading or listen to an audio recording of the session. While both methods have pros and cons, we recommend scheduling a live reading because you will be able to see the psychic and ask questions immediately after the session is complete.
Most psychics are happy to give you additional information after the reading, whether you’re interested in scheduling another appointment or not. It’s best to let them know ahead of time so they can prepare accordingly. They might be able to share a few pieces of advice, tell you the meaning of symbols or clues you provided or even explain a dream you said you had.
You can also contact the psychic to discuss the details of your session once you’ve finished. Ask about the payment plan, cancellation policies and any other terms that apply. Be sure to read everything carefully before signing anything.
How long does a psychic reading take?
Depending on the nature of the reading—whether you’re getting insight into your past, future or present—it could take anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour to complete. Your psychic may read cards, analyze your aura, channel a spirit guide or use clairvoyance to divine some answers. However, the amount of time needed to complete each session varies based on the psychic’s abilities and the nature of the reading.
Many psychics do not charge extra for the length of the session. After all, you are paying for their expertise, and the longer the session, the more expensive it gets!
Can I record my psychic reading?
No. Once you enter the room, no cell phones or cameras are allowed inside the booth. If you are concerned about privacy, you should request that your psychic perform the reading privately outside of the room where you meet. Some psychics allow clients to bring a notebook or journal to jot down notes during the session, though it’s usually best to simply pay attention and write down anything interesting that comes up during the reading.
However, some psychics encourage clients to use their intuition, so don’t feel pressured to write anything down unless you feel guided to do so. Also, remember that your psychic isn’t required to share any information with you that was discussed during the reading. He or she may choose to divulge certain information only if asked, and it’s always best to respect that decision.
It’s okay to ask specific questions during the reading, as well. It’s best to avoid asking too many at once because it makes the reading seem rushed. It’s also important to stay respectful and maintain eye contact. Don’t interrupt, change topics or become angry. Keep talking, but remain calm and polite.
If you have specific questions regarding the reading, try to wait until after the session ends. It’s also helpful to ask for a written summary of the session. Many psychics provide this service free of charge, but some charges between $10-$20 per session.
While you may be nervous or anxious about your session, try to remain focused and patient. Remember that you are paying for expert advice, and your psychic wants to make sure you leave satisfied. Take a deep breath before entering the room and remind yourself that you’re doing this for a good reason.
